Life Group Sign Up

Typically each life group is connected to a certain site and to a certain pastor for oversight

Groups typically meet in the evening (e.g. starting at 7pm)

You aren't fully committing to being the leader at this point, just indicating openness... Someone needs to do it... could it possibly be you?

It doesn't necessarily have to be every week, but possibly on rotation with others.

TENTH CHURCH VISION:
We are a place where people of all different backgrounds can discover Christ, a community of spiritual transformation that seeks justice for all.

LIFE GROUP VISION:
A life group is a community of people committed to one another for the sake of discovering Jesus and becoming like him. It's a place where we cultivate healthy relationships and spiritual growth.

PURPOSE OF LIFE GROUP:
To grow spiritually in community.

EXPECTATIONS OF GROUP MEMBERS:
1. Respect Others:
- Aim to be on time for group meetings
- Prioritize participation: Commit to regular attendance at life group and at Sunday services (e.g. at least 50% of the time).
- Communicate: When you are unable to attend life group, let your leader know. If you are upset about something that happened in the group, talk about it respectfully.
- Share with “I” statements: In group discussions, speak for yourself (e.g. “I struggle to forgive” rather than “We all struggle to forgive”). We are only experts on ourselves.
- Turn to wonder: If you feel judgmental or defensive when someone else is sharing, ask yourself: I wonder what brought them to this belief; I wonder what they’re feeling right now? I wonder what my reaction teaches me about myself?
- Don’t give unsolicited advice: Respect people’s journeys and trust the Holy Spirit inside of them to lead them into all truth. Resist the temptation to offer quick advice as people share in the group.
2. Observe Confidentiality:
Anything shared with the group should not be repeated outside of the group (except your own story), in order to create a safe environment for everyone in the group. However, information about causing harm to self or others must be reported.
3. Seek Reconciliation:
Even if all the guidelines are followed, we could still inadvertently offend or hurt each other. Check assumptions, clarify expectations, and debrief conflicts. If you are hurt, be honest yet gentle. Endeavor to extend grace and forgiveness, and to give the other person the benefit of the doubt. If you hurt someone, listen, empathize, humbly take responsibility, and apologize. “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone” (Romans 12:18).

HOW TO HELP YOUR GROUP THRIVE:
1. Show Up
Involvement leads to impact and helps foster trust. Trust is a necessary element for groups to grow closer together, and to grow closer together with God.
2. Join In
Seek to get to know your group members and let them get to know you. Share with as much depth as you feel comfortable.
3. Be Real
Transformation happens when we let go of layers of false-self and allow God and others to see us as we truly are. Be yourself. Be honest. You will find that as you offer yourself more deeply, your relationships with God and others will grow.
4. Care
Pray for one another and for your group as a whole, both in your group time and in your private prayers. If someone in your group is going through a hard time, reach out by phone, email, text, or a written note. You may offer specific practical help (e.g. “Can I bring you a meal?” “Can I pick up groceries for you?” “Can I start a Meal Train for you?”)

*If you have read the agreement and intend to live in line with it, please type your full name as a signature.